Online dating is hot: it's dating without borders or watchful eyes or hankie-twisting grandmothers hovering near. But did you know that internet dating is just a newer version of past pairing-off techniques.?
Back to Square One
During the 1700’s and 1800’s North America was one vast frontier. The majority of the cities clung to the Eastern shores near the Atlantic Ocean. Men and women lived in rural farming communities with their families. Social interactions were mainly church related or community events such as square dances. These functions were the only chance that single young men and women had to interact. Chaperones would make introductions, watched over the couples and be matchmakers. This type of dating was considered the social norm of the day. As pioneers moved west, it wasn't uncommon for a man to advertise for a wife in the newspaper. This began the trend toward anonymous pairings.
Step up to the Bar
Be it a country saloon or the hottest urban dance club, as women gained more equality, the nearest watering hole became the place to meet singles. Yet, in the 21st century, who has the time or the money to go out a club, pay for overpriced drinks and wait for fate to step in so you can meet Ms. Right? Also, the world is a very big place and you are limiting yourself to a very small group in a small area if you limit yourself to traditional dating.
If you like Pina Coladas
Just like the pop song Escape, using the latest technology hooked up singles through ads in local papers. These often were limited to 20 or 25 words -- you can't say much with a restriction like that. Currently, by using an Internet dating site, you can fully express who you are and what qualities you are seeking in a mate without the pressure (or costly disappointment) of in-person first dates. In addition, you are able to narrow down your choices and correspond with the ladies or lady of your choosing. Hopefully, a new song will be inspired by Internet dating.
Make Me a Match
In many cultures, prearranged marriages and matchmakers were common, and are still used in certain cultures today. The modern Western idea of finding “The One” on your own is very foreign to the rest of the world. Parents will make an agreement to marry their children off at an agreed upon age. The majority of the time the couple meets on their wedding day. Under this arrangement, the parents feel that the two will grow to love one another.
Get On It
Using an online dating service means that you are in control, not someone else. You can narrow down your preferences, converse with whomever you wish, and really get to know a lady. Also, you can express yourself openly, without fear of judgment. The service provides the tools, you provide the content.
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