Most women dream of meeting their Prince Charming. but, as they lament, "you have to kiss a lot of toads to meet the handsome prince." Are you a toad or a prince? Here are four types of men that well-balanced women tend to avoid.
The "I'm All That" Guy
So you have a 10,000 square-foot beach "cottage" and a Ferrari. in this economy, that's quite a feat indeed. But bragging about it is a real turn-off. According to a survey conducted by RussianLoveMatch.com, arrogance is one of the top ten turn-offs for Russian women. Others, too!
It's okay to honestly answer questions about your lifestyle, but try to refrain from throwing out unnecessary information about your net worth, the number of beautiful women you have dated in the past, what expensive cars/electronics/vacations, etc., you recently purchased, etc.
Even if you do not mean to sound arrogant, such comments may come across as obnoxious and cocky (especially to a lady who does not have much in the way of material goods). Modest men often get further with the ladies than men who boast.
Men who are obsessed with sex
It's no secret that men think about sex more often than women. However, that does not mean women want to hear sexual comments from men. Especially if the couple is still in the getting-to-know-you phase of their relationship. This can be a big turn-off because she will think you want her for her body alone; very few mentally-healthy women want that.
While you may think a woman will be flattered by a comment about her hot bod or what you would like to do to her, such talk is likely to offend her. Not only that, but she may think you're only interested in sex and stop communicating with you altogether. Men (and women) who are seriously seeking a long-term relationship should avoid talking about sex in the early stages of a relationship. Save sexy talk for later in the relationship, when it really means something!
Mr. Ho-Hum
Women are drawn to men with interests, drive, and passion. Men who lack these attributes risk being seen as boring and unattractive.
While you don’t have to be an astronaut or a brain surgeon to turn-on a lady, she wants to know that you have dreams and ambitions. Remember your goals don’t have to be career-orientated. Perhaps you’ve always wanted to travel the world or excel at a particular hobby. Go for it. Even if you don’t succeed, it’s better to try than do nothing at all. Better yet, find a lady who shares your passions. It can only enrich your relationship.
Enough About Me...
You've heard the expression, "Well, enough about me. Tell me what YOU think about me!" Everyone feels marginalized by people who monopolize converstions about their own lives or steer every comment back themselves. Some guys do it out of nervousness and wanting to fill silence. Resist! Simply asking, "What do YOu think about that?" is courteous, falttering, and a real turn-on.
These simple steps will put you on a path toward a good relationship!
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