Acclaimed Psychologist Shares Online Dating Tips

Dr. Joy Browne, a nationally syndicated radio host, recently released a third edition of her popular Dating for Dummies book, and in it the acclaimed psychologist shares a few tips to help singles find live on online dating websites

“Literally thousands of folks are out there just waiting to click or be clicked on,” Browne said. “You just have to know how and where to connect — and understand the ‘rules’ before you venture online.”

Here are 3 simple online dating tips from Dr. Browne.

Post Accurate, Appropriate Photos

Many singles already know that profiles with photos attract a lot more attention than profiles without. However, what these singles may not realize is that accurate, appropriate pictures are also important. Browne advises that online daters most recent pics, not photos taken several years, or several pounds, ago. Overly sexy images are also a no-no. Guys and gals should both keep their clothes on if they want others to believe they are sincere about finding love. Anything else may send the wrong message.

Be Truthful

When it comes to online dating, Dr. Browne believes that honesty is the best policy. The psychologist acknowledges that many, if not most, online daters lie about or exaggerate their age and weight. However, such practices only lead to embarrassment and disappointment at the first meeting. Her advice? If you’re a little overweight just say so, or past a photo reflecting your current weight.

Don’t Try to Date Everyone

While it may be tempting to date as many people as possible Dr. Browne recommends online daters focus on one or two people at a time. “Beware of juggling too many people at the same time,” she says. “If you do find somebody who you think may be a keeper, both of you can agree to take your profiles off the Internet, allowing for a more normalized dating environment. Both of you always know that you can resurrect your profiles if things don’t work out.”

Check out Dr. Browne’s Dating for Dummies to learn more about online dating dos and don’ts!

Via: The Grand Rapids Press


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