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Many women fear that their spouse will cheat and often times they think there are things they can do to keep him from straying.

The latest gimmick women are leveraging to get a guy to stay is the stripper pole. Ok, from what I hear it’s great exercise. But seriously, I doubt watching his wife prance around like a stripper will keep him out of the strip club.

That is not the only thing women believe will keep a guy. Here are a few other things that won’t keep him from wandering.

Threats. While we think they work in short term, they really don’t work at all. No one wants to be threatened. Anyone who is repeatedly threatened will leave eventually. It’s a head game not worth playing.

Forget the Brazilian. Honestly, most men could care less about that landscaping. Really, do you think resembling a porn star will keep him away from one? It certainly won’t keep him faithful.

This goes with the threats, don’t spend your time putting him down. It’s never a good idea to attempt to make him think he can’t or won’t find anyone better. That’s as much as a challenge, and you can be sure he just might take you up on that challenge.

The last one is weak and so unattractive, playing the victim. It’s lame. He won’t feel bad for you. He may actually resent that little ploy and cheat anyway.

Men cheat for a number of reasons.  The most common reasons they cheat are for emotional support, unmet needs, ego, revenge and fear and freedom.

These misperceived actions that women think will keep a man actually play into a few of the reasons men cheat in the first place.

 

Tags: cheating men, keeping a man
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